Some people would argue that this is harmless and that you can’t HELP noticing people or being attracted to them. Whether you believe that or not, when your eyes and heart are set on the person you ARE with, there isn’t room for this nonsense.
This is what real life looks like in my relationships – all of them: romantic, family, friends, everyone. It goes a little something like this: We don’t agree. I can feel both of us slowly putting on our debate hats….